I Will Only Say This Once (& I'm Making It Public So Y'all Have No Excuse)

Since this assumption has seemingly become common all of a sudden I'm only going to say this once: This blog/newsletter/project does not exist for me to get dates or get laid.

I get that a lot of you are here because this blog is linked in my Instagram alt, which is linked in my Feeld profile as a way for people to DM me without having to pay for Feeld because having tiered systems based on ability to pay is anathema to my personal ethics and more than likely filters out people I would actually get along with. It does not exist because I'm looking for followers or compliments or ego boosts or getting fucking dates. If you're here to look at pictures of me - Great! If you're here to read about my life and my thoughts - Great! If you relate to what I post and want to comment about it or support what I write - Great!

If you're here to read about my life and my thoughts and then try to use what I've said to the actual audience I do this for WHICH IS 100% NOT MEN WHO ARE TRYING TO FUCK ME to try to fuck me, please fucking stop. If you give a fuck at all about why I do this, please read this post. You'll note that nowhere in there do I say "I'm doing this for men to have the mistaken idea that they know me or know anything about me or my life so that they then will take those parasocial feelings to email or DMs to convince me I should fuck them." I mean, straight up, 90% of the people I talk to/sext/have sex with aren't men.

This isn't aimed at anyone specific because too many of y'all are doing this for me to even get into specifics (other than you're all men). I honestly should not even have to say this to grown ass people: Please act fucking normal. You do not know me. This is not a dating site and I am not doing this for you. Please respect that.

Now I'm going back to doing my own shit for my own reasons. A regular weekly roundup post will be coming tonight or tomorrow.